![]() Maybe something she says will surprise you - or give both of you some ideas.GOO GOO DOLLS - IM STILL HERE BASS TAB INTRO (yOU CAN PLAY THIS RIFFT IN ALL OF THE SONG AS A HALF NOTE) G|-| D|-| A|-0~-5~-0~-5~-| E|-| VERSE I am a question to the world, Not an answer to be heard. Is she open to closeness? Cuddling? When is she interested? Ask how she likes to show and receive affection these days. In the meantime, you can ask her if there are other ways to connect. You can pursue this information, and maybe she’ll join you for one appointment. If your wife isn’t open to joining you, see about going on your own. They know a lot about this stuff, and they offer a safe place to talk and ask questions. There are sex therapists who have experience helping people over 70. ![]() Assure her that this wouldn’t be about convincing her to like something that no longer interests her it’s all about getting information, learning about bodies and minds, and finding out how other couples find ways to connect when one person’s sex drive is much higher than the other’s. I wonder if your wife might consider seeking this kind of help with you. What couples might discover, with assistance, is a better way to connect in the present. The real experts seem to help people adjust to evolving physical and emotional needs, and the goal doesn’t have to be returning to the past. It doesn’t have to be about getting to a place where everyone is having perfect, amazing sex (whatever that means). The more I discover about this kind of counseling, in general, the more I realize how inclusive it can be. ![]() I love my wife, my family, and my life, and I’m just worried how it’s going to affect me, my wife, and our relationship for the future. I’m not looking for another woman or another relationship, and I think my resentment will start to grow (if it hasn’t started to already). I have not reached that point in my life and I hope not to. She tells me some of her girlfriends feel the same. She tells me she’s not looking for another man (or woman) - that she still loves me, but she has just lost that internal sexual desire. (My brain would not be stimulated, and it would also affect what’s below as well - something at my age I can hardly afford.) I know that if I were to initiate something in the bedroom, my brain will tell me that she was just doing it for me, and honestly that really takes much of the enjoyment out of it for me. I know I’m no longer in my 20s or 30s or even my 50s or 60s, but I still do have those desires and needs. Even though she hadn’t initiated sex for many years, her comment took me by surprise. My wife recently informed me that she no longer has a desire or an urge for sex.
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